Guest Author of The New Book "Facial Pain: Living Well with Neuropathic Facial Pain"

Laura is a woman with dark brown hair and green eyes. She is wearing glasses and

smiling. Laura holds up a white, dark blue, and teal book. The title of the book is

Facial Pain: Living Well with Neuropathic Facial Pain

I was honored to be able to write a chapter for the new book, Facial Pain: Living Well with Neuropathic Facial Pain!

When I decided to share my story in this book I wanted to make sure I shared the message that I learned, and that is, pain and joy can coexist. You can still have a beautiful life even with the pain of TN.

I'm thankful to the wonderful editor of this book Anne Brazer Ciemnecki, The Facial Pain Association (FPA), and The Young Patients Committee (YPC) for this amazing opportunity.

You can buy the book here!

The Facial Pain Association and the Young Patients Committee are an insightful and supportive resource for facial pain patients and their loved ones!

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